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Date: 2/6/13 1:30 PM

Ok I don't know but I'm freaked out. I have been trying to just put this out of my mind but I keep thinking about it. Not a real scary thing happened but none the less I'm still freaked. I need to first set up the situation. 18 years ago my daughter had cancer. The owner of the place I worked at told me I could take all the time I needed. Well, then I got a letter from I'll call her "Mary", she was my supervisor and a mean type at that. Well her letter said to return to work in 2 weeks or I will have lost my job. I couldn't my daughter was dying in the hospital and they all knew that. So, I called and of course threw a lot of "F" words. I quit! Well, fast forward to this past Dec. I had a dream with this supervisor Mary in it and work. And I can't remember all of it but it was weird like I was working there and was irritated. When I woke up I thought it was strange and didn't give it another thought and went back to bed. Next morning I vaguely remembered it and still don't. Just know that I dreamed about that job of 18 yrs ago. Well, then I went back home to see family (6hrs away) about 2 weeks later. My sister said "Hey, did anyone tell you? about two weeks ago Mary had died" My mouth fell open and I said no. She said I guess she died of cancer. My sister looked at me funny (because she could see the look on my face) and I told her I just dreamed about her 2 weeks ago. We both just stood there staring at each other and dropped it.

So, I don't know but it makes me feel uneasy I guess. Kind of hard to explain how I feel just don't know what to think or do about it. Still trying to forget this even happened. just so weird when I haven't even dreamed about that place since leaving. Maybe all coincidence right? Ok feel a little better about getting it off my chest.

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Date: 2/6/13 1:42 PM

I believe it's possible. Years ago, my husband dreamed that his nephew was deathly ill. He told me about it and we laughed to think that an apparently healthy 22 year old would be that ill, and forgot about it. Two months later, he told his parents that he had advanced melanoma, had known about it for a few months, but had not told them. We never told his parents about this spooky occurence, but we often talk about it ourselves.

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Date: 2/6/13 1:48 PM

I have heard of a lot of experiences such as this. I neither believe or disbelieve. But, what a coincidence.

Let's just say she was sending you a message by this dream. Would it just be to remember her? Would it be she felt guilty about this all these years? Or at least when she became sick? I am trying to analyze the dream. Anyone out there know what could be the meaning?

And, if it wasn't her was it your ESP or something? Interesting.

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Date: 2/6/13 1:50 PM

I wonder what the heck does this mean. Did she really visit me? now I want to know what was said between us in my dream. Was it about my daughter and now her in the same situation? Just spooky I guess.

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Date: 2/6/13 1:53 PM

Yeah very interesting! When you say ESP I think of when I'm think of my DH and then the phone rings and its him. Weird too. If I didn't live in the ticks I would see one of those people that talk to the dead.

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Date: 2/6/13 2:20 PM

Oh, you are definitely not alone. My Mom was quite psychic this way and just sometimes knew things she could otherwise not possibly have known. I have it a little bit too. Sometimes I too just know that which I should have no knowledge of.

I am also certain I actually saw two spirits once people I did not know. I wasn't afraid in the moment but just thinking about it my hair stands on end. It was so real, yet at the time I knew they weren't real. I wasn't afraid at all and just knew they meant no harm. I could just feel it.

My take? Mary finally understood what you were going through and needed all those years ago. Her spirit or energy is what came to you. It may have been an apology, or asking for forgiveness, or just saying she understood.

I have come to believe that with some people we have such a profound emotional connection - good or bad - that we continue to receive or be connected with their energy/ spirit. . It is like their engergy/spriit becomes imprinted on our lives. I often dream about my first "love" in high school and my BFF. (They ended up together and I was fine with it.) Even though I haven't seen them in years, I still feel a connection with them. It's funny that I usually only dream about them when I am under a lot of stress. I find it kind of comforting.


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Date: 2/6/13 2:23 PM

I would interpret it as her having, sadly, gained a full understanding of your family's pain and suffering and wishing she had been better able to be supportive and understanding when you most needed it.

I have had experiences...... If it was me I'd whisper to her that I was sorry that she had to find out so much and I'd thank her for letting me know that she now understood. And I'd say a prayer of peace for her and for her family.

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Date: 2/6/13 2:24 PM

It's simply a coincidence, and that's all it is.

You had a disturbing experience experience with Mary during a highly emotionally charged time twenty years ago. For this reason, it's not surprising that your brain thinks of her from time to time and that she even pops up in your dreams occasionally. If you're like most people, you do not remember all or even most of your dreams. So, it's likely you have dreamed of Mary at least once and quite possibly several times before.

I sometimes dream about people I once worked with or knew long ago, and I strongly doubt any of them are dying or trying to send me messages from beyond the grave. This life is all there is. Once you die, you are dead.

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Date: 2/6/13 2:27 PM

I don't believe in the supernatural, period. I would say that this was one of two things:

Co-incidence; after all, if they didn't happen we wouldn't need a word for them.

OR

You did receive some sort of energy, brain-wave, whatever, but it has a scientific explanation, grounded in the laws of physics and perhaps chemistry, which is, at this point, not understood.

I firmly believe that at some point in humankind's future, provided we don't do ourselves out of existence before it happens, that all of those things which are thought to be "supernatural" will turn out to be quite natural, and obey the physical laws of the universe.

And I send you my condolences on the terrible loss you suffered.

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Date: 2/6/13 2:27 PM

I recently was helping a dear friend of mine to start sewing again...the whole time we were working, I kept seeing shadows out of the corner of my eye...I asked my friend if she was seeing them too, and it turns out that when she was a child, her mom would hover over her a bit while she sewed, to make sure she was right there to help her. I wasn't scared at all, but I called out "It's okay, I'll make sure she does a good job!" and there were no more shadows. We still kind of joke about that her mom was there to make sure she was paying attention and doing a good job!

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